HOW TO REKINDLE THE SPARK IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
Realising that your once passionate relationship has become bland and boring is an extremely distressing feeling. It can happen in even the best of relationships. But don’t settle for being a part of the furniture in your home. There are many ways to find out why your man has lost interest in you and, to rekindle the spark in your relationship. Here, we look at a few ways to attract your man again, and keep him interested.
1. Take a vacation
The simplest way to get away from your routine, is to take a vacation. It can be as short or as long as you want. But make sure that only your partner and you are going. If you have children, arrange for them to stay with your relatives or friends. For an added benefit, leave all your work related stuff at home, so that distractions will be minimum. You will be truly surprised by the changes, something as small as a vacation can bring to your relationship.
2. Go out on a date
If you have kids or too many work related commitments to take a vacation, you don’t have to worry. Instead of a vacation, you can go out, on a simple date. To make it more romantic, make it a surprise. Don’t wait for an occasion like a birthday or your anniversary. Pick a random day and take your partner for a beautiful candle light dinner. After your date, depending on the mood, decide on what to do next. You could continue your fun filled night out or take it up a level, to the bedroom.
3. Talk to your partner and also listen
When I say talk, I don’t mean about the kids or who is supposed to do the dishes. Rather, talk how you used to talk before. Talk about your feelings, your dreams, your hopes, your sex life and most importantly about your love for each other. It is also very important to listen to your partner. Think about his answers, and discuss more. Opening up a new line of communication is one of the easiest ways to make sure he does not lose interest.
4. Touch each other more
As couples become older, they begin to touch each other less. Touching becomes an awkward act, especially with the kids around. You can pick out a new couple just by watching how much they touch each other, be it holding hands or cuddling each other. So remind yourself to touch your partner more often. It could be a simple touch on the shoulder, a gentle kiss or a hug. Soon, he will start reciprocating to your actions and, you will find yourself having a lot more fun.
5. Revamp your sex life
If your lingerie looks like something your grandmother wore in the 1940’s, it’s probably time to get some new ones. Instead of waiting for your partner to initiate sex, surprise him by initiating sex yourself. Don’t be afraid to try out new things. Dare to explore new territories in your sex life. Do it the right way and you will leave him gasping for more.
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