How To Get A Man Back & Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back After A Break Up
Has The Man In Your Life Lost Interest In You Or The Relationship? Discover Inside Secrets On How To Get A Man Back & Ways To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back After A Break Up Occurs!
By you reading this, I would assume one of three things. You are currently battling with the pain of watching someone you love and care about, withdraw and lose interest in the relationship. You have noticed serious problems in your current relationship, or the relationship has ended, and you are desperately searching for ways to get your ex boyfriend back.
While I assure you, all of the above are very painful to experience, and though just reading this will not make you feel any better, trust me you are not alone.
Just about everyone who has lived long enough to fall in love has experienced what you are going through right now. Losing someone that you are in love with can be very painful and the sense of loss can overwhelm you.
Your initial instinct will probably be to do whatever you can to get them back. But sometimes it is better to take a few steps back and evaluate the situation to avoid making the same mistakes again.
Relationship meltdowns have no set of rules and more often than not are rarely mutual which means somebody is going to get hurt. If you were the one who wanted it to last or the one holding it together, you may be experiencing feelings of confusion, sadness, anxiety, sleeplessness, appetite loss (or binge eating), and the general feeling off-balance.
Depending on the stages in how the relationship got to this point, or the direction it’s currently headed, it could feel as if you are living hell on earth.
Hear me when I say this, it’s absolutely normal to have these feelings.
Regardless, and though I would certainly I agree, it is much easier to be said, than accepted. After a breakup, I believe it’s essential that you seriously get in check with the emotions you are currently feeling. And trust me, when our emotions are running high, when we are faced with the fear of losing someone we deeply love and care about, it’s very easy to create further damage, and without realizing it.
To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back, To Re-Spark His Interest & Make Him Want You Again You Must Understand Why He May Be Pulling Away & Losing Interest!
Let’s face it, ladies. After the honeymoon phase and the initial butterflies, the dynamics in a relationship are bound to change with time. The longer you remain in a relationship with a significant other, the more susceptible you are to inevitably hitting a point where he takes you for granted. Depending on the circumstances at hand, there could be a number of factors involved. Perhaps boredom, the grass is greener mentality or some other driver.
Regardless of the reason, it will happen and you will be ‘tested’. When I use the word ‘tested’, what I am saying is you will be ‘tested’ to see how you handle a particular situation. Remember, men are instantly attracted to women who are in complete control over their lives, their actions and the people they share it with.
This can never be compromised!
To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back & To Make Him Want You Again – There Are Several Mistakes You Want To Avoid After A Break Up
The trouble is that you are only human, when we suffer the shock and trauma of a break up, we become ruled by our emotions. You will probably notice yourself that you are behaving in a very erratic manner and that it is difficult to control how you feel. When you can’t get a grip on your actions this is when you make a mess of things.
When you lose control it shows signs of low self-confidence and lowers the value he places on you. By you not controlling your actions, you essentially show how powerless you truly are. How much control he and the relationship have over your happiness!
Using A Little Reverse Psychology To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Interested & Make Him Want You Again
Men are naturally designed to handle pressure. Men, by nature, know how to handle problems, create solutions and to fix things. Men rarely fret about being alone, nor do they have a problem starting over!
So much so, it’s really critical that you understand how important it is to allow a man the space he needs during one of these meltdowns. Why? Because you cannot ever push yourself on a man! It’s a HUGE no-no.
Not only so, the number one way to significantly boost your chances of making this a success is to not panic, to not react, and to not give him any more power than he already has.
Not only that, during these critical times, applying self-control of ‘giving the relationship breathing space’, allows you and your partner the time and space that is essential to letting things cool down. Basically, it’s a silent way of saying ‘You’ have your shit together. Not to mention, we already know that space equals chemistry! Perhaps not from a woman’s perspective but certainly in the minds of men.
We all know that men have big egos and they like to have them stroked by females, it makes them feel wanted and more manly. They have a secret desire to retain your love and affections, long after they break up with you. Seems selfish doesn’t it? This is a natural masculine need and it actually makes them feel quite pleased with themselves. They will expect you to try to change your mind, or at the very least, be sad and miserable without you. They will often look for signs that you are missing them too.
Instead of giving him what he wants, you will want to pull the rug from under his feet. Make it seem as if you are totally okay with the break up and that you are getting on with your life. Nothing will unnerve him more as it will make him question whether you ever cared about him at all. You can achieve this by not saying anything at all to him, that is the beauty of it. When you do it subtly he will sit up and take notice of you again. Once you have rekindles his interest in you, he will soon wonder why he let you go and begin to exhibit signs that he wants you back.
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